OH BTW, NANTI IM GIVING EVERYONE UPDATES ON LONDON, AND OUR JOURNEY THERE SO WATCH OUT FOR THAT OKAY.
CANT WAIT .AAAAAAAAAAA........... BENCI NYE AKUUUUUUU....
Monday, July 16, 2007
LONDON HERE I COME
OH MY SISTER, ME MYSELF, ANDY AND CARLINA IS COMING TO LONDON , WE DECIDED TODAY , WE WILL BE COMING TO LONDON ON THE 14 OCTOBER UNTIL 26 OCTOBER, CALL ME OKAY.
IM SO EXCITED,
MEMANDANGKAN AKU TAK JADI SAMBUNG BELAJAR, SO AKU P MELANCUNG LAH PULAK. HE HE.
LONDON HERE I COME
OH MY SISTER, ME MYSELF, ANDY AND CARLINA IS COMING TO LONDON , WE DECIDED TODAY , WE WILL BE COMING TO LONDON ON THE
Friday, July 13, 2007
Joke for life
Chinpeng
I was looking for an empty space to park my car at Bangsar when suddenly
there's a knock on the glass"Encik ah..tanya sikit ah..itu Chimpeng mana ah..?""Apa?""Chimpeng, Chimpeng...saya sudah tanya itu guard ah..
dia ckaap sini ada satu Chimpeng...""Sorrylah Apek. Saya tak tau woh...Apa tempat itu Chimpeng?""Aiyah...itu Chimpeng balu punya..Saya mau pigi angkat wang la..."
"Tarak tau la boss. Itu kedai ka apa?Along ka?"
"Chimpeng bukan kedai ma..lu itu pun tak tau ah..?
itu Chimpeng macam ituMaypeng, Public Peng, RHetB Peng...itu balu punya peng..
"Adoi...bengap punya apek..buat aku pening je..dia actually cari CIMB Bank..
Air
One day in a class room a teacher is teaching Science and the topic for today is gasses.
So the teacher asked the class
Teacher :" Can anyone name me and example of any kind of gasses around us.
Student 1: Oxygen teacher
Teacher: Good very good, anymore..
Student 2: Hidrogen teacher
Teacher: Good very good, anymore.. anyone... fadzilah... give me one example
Fadzilah: errrrr... errrrrrrr...(mak tak tau lah ).. LACTOGEN teacher..(lari).....
Teacher: What??????????? you very the bodoh
Oh by the way this is only a rekaan belaka, so dont you be hengry or hannoy hokey.
Thursday, July 12, 2007
Mothers hear this..
WHY WOMEN LET THEMSELVES GO
Have you ever thought why people especially mothers and in particularly housewife let themselves go , from being an outgoing, pleasantly looking, fun and loving person to this bitter, fat and self unorganized person ( tapi tak jugak semulalah, ada juga mothers yang cantek dan bergaya). Normally parents and in particularly mothers would let go of themselves eg. appearance wise contohnya pakaian selebet je and their self confidence resulting to low self esteem.
These are a few reasons why Women Let Themselves Go:-
1.0 Women aren't on their own list of priorities.
After taking care of everyone else, they are always putting themselves last on the list, and often have very little left to give. There are many women who aren't living—they are just existing. This is a form of self-abuse. Women often wear their exhaustion as a badge of honor. The more you do for your loved ones, the more acceptable it becomes to "let yourself go." Women believe it's okay to become a "sacrificial lamb" within their own families. This is a lie that we allow ourselves to buy into, but we need to wake up! The challenge for women is that they must re-language what it means to be a wife and mother. Being a good wife and mother means that if you don't take care of yourself, in the long run you are ultimately harming all the other people you love in your life. You won't be the only one who takes the hit.
2.0 Fear of Competition.
Media and society frequently tell women we need to portray ourselves as "together" and be able to perform any task thrown our way. But when women look at the reality of how overwhelmed they feel in their own lives, they begin to feel like they are not good or worthy enough. Women often see other women who look like they are "doing it all"—and then when they compare themselves, they become overwhelmed and feel inadequate. It's not easy to face feelings of inadequacy so women usually end up avoiding them. But women need to know you can't show up in your own life if you are on the run. They tell themselves they are too tired and burdened to compete with others so they don't believe they have the power to change anything. Then they "drop out" of the game—they give up and let themselves go.
3.0 Unresolved anger contributes to letting go.
Sometimes women "drop out" because they don't know how to send a verbal message that says, "Get off my back." They have unresolved feelings of anger or rage toward someone or about something so they "let themselves go" to express that. When women give up on themselves, they are often sending messages of anger and it could be because of something traumatic that happened in the past or because of unhappiness in a current relationship…like with a parent, husband, or child.
4. We let fear take over.
Women become paralyzed in their lives and let themselves go because of an underlying fear. A fear of rejection, a fear to accept how they really feel about themselves, a fear of facing the idea that they aren't enough, a fear of accepting how others may feel about them. They let the fear take over and let other people determine their own self worth. The internal barometer that gauges, guides and directs your life as an empowered woman—that makes you know you are enough and okay—is broken and needs to be fixed.
Have you ever thought why people especially mothers and in particularly housewife let themselves go , from being an outgoing, pleasantly looking, fun and loving person to this bitter, fat and self unorganized person ( tapi tak jugak semulalah, ada juga mothers yang cantek dan bergaya). Normally parents and in particularly mothers would let go of themselves eg. appearance wise contohnya pakaian selebet je and their self confidence resulting to low self esteem.
These are a few reasons why Women Let Themselves Go:-
1.0 Women aren't on their own list of priorities.
After taking care of everyone else, they are always putting themselves last on the list, and often have very little left to give. There are many women who aren't living—they are just existing. This is a form of self-abuse. Women often wear their exhaustion as a badge of honor. The more you do for your loved ones, the more acceptable it becomes to "let yourself go." Women believe it's okay to become a "sacrificial lamb" within their own families. This is a lie that we allow ourselves to buy into, but we need to wake up! The challenge for women is that they must re-language what it means to be a wife and mother. Being a good wife and mother means that if you don't take care of yourself, in the long run you are ultimately harming all the other people you love in your life. You won't be the only one who takes the hit.
2.0 Fear of Competition.
Media and society frequently tell women we need to portray ourselves as "together" and be able to perform any task thrown our way. But when women look at the reality of how overwhelmed they feel in their own lives, they begin to feel like they are not good or worthy enough. Women often see other women who look like they are "doing it all"—and then when they compare themselves, they become overwhelmed and feel inadequate. It's not easy to face feelings of inadequacy so women usually end up avoiding them. But women need to know you can't show up in your own life if you are on the run. They tell themselves they are too tired and burdened to compete with others so they don't believe they have the power to change anything. Then they "drop out" of the game—they give up and let themselves go.
3.0 Unresolved anger contributes to letting go.
Sometimes women "drop out" because they don't know how to send a verbal message that says, "Get off my back." They have unresolved feelings of anger or rage toward someone or about something so they "let themselves go" to express that. When women give up on themselves, they are often sending messages of anger and it could be because of something traumatic that happened in the past or because of unhappiness in a current relationship…like with a parent, husband, or child.
4. We let fear take over.
Women become paralyzed in their lives and let themselves go because of an underlying fear. A fear of rejection, a fear to accept how they really feel about themselves, a fear of facing the idea that they aren't enough, a fear of accepting how others may feel about them. They let the fear take over and let other people determine their own self worth. The internal barometer that gauges, guides and directs your life as an empowered woman—that makes you know you are enough and okay—is broken and needs to be fixed.
Inspirational and Motivational Quotes.
1) Never expect things to happen.. struggle and make them happen.
never expect yourself to be given a good value create a value of your own
2) If a drop of water falls in lake there is no identity. But if it falls on a leaf of lotus it shine like a pearl. so choose the best place where you would shine..
3) Falling down is not defeat...defeat is when your refuse to get up...
4) Ship is always safe at shore... but is not built for it
5) When your successful your well wishers know who you are when you are unsuccessful you know who your well wishers are
6) It is great confidence in a friend to tell him your faults; greater to tell him/her
7) "To the world you might be one person, but to one person you just might be the world
8) "Even the word 'IMPOSSIBLE' says 'I M POSSIBLE' "
9) Effort is important, but knowing where to make an effort in your life makes all the difference.
never expect yourself to be given a good value create a value of your own
2) If a drop of water falls in lake there is no identity. But if it falls on a leaf of lotus it shine like a pearl. so choose the best place where you would shine..
3) Falling down is not defeat...defeat is when your refuse to get up...
4) Ship is always safe at shore... but is not built for it
5) When your successful your well wishers know who you are when you are unsuccessful you know who your well wishers are
6) It is great confidence in a friend to tell him your faults; greater to tell him/her
7) "To the world you might be one person, but to one person you just might be the world
8) "Even the word 'IMPOSSIBLE' says 'I M POSSIBLE' "
9) Effort is important, but knowing where to make an effort in your life makes all the difference.
Wednesday, July 11, 2007
Be thankful
Enlighten me on this… have you ever felt that you take your life for granted. For instance waking up in the morning and going to work everyday even when you don’t feel like going or looking at yourself saying what a boring day its going to be today the same old chores. I think each and everyone of us did that without even realizing that life is too short and it is suppose to celebrated everyday.
I guess sometimes we don’t realize how precious life can be, how much God have enthrone us with all this wondrous things in life, but have we ever been thankful for it.
Be thankful for :-
- Having to wake up in the morning because its another day of you making the most in life, having to make a difference in your life and people around you.
- Going to work every morning, and realizing that you got a job that gets you going even to a point that you think its monotonous because some other people don’t get to realize that because there jobless.
- Caught up in a jam, at least you got wheels.. some people are standing up in the bus with the smell and the air-condition that doesn’t really works.
- That you could spend another day with your family even with the yelling, the drama and most of all the fights because when they are dead and gone you never go say hello and say that I love you.
- For the parents that you have and still breathing because some people didn’t get to experience that. Some orphan child would die to have what you have, so be thankful that you still got your elders and don’t forget to express your love everyday.
- Another day to say call and to say I love you to your siblings. Because when they are gone, then you only wish you could say that and let them know how much their lives make a great difference in yours.
- For the friends that you have, and how the laughter and the wonderful journey you have together. Even sometimes things are rough its just a way of life dealing with you.
For the gift of being able to appreciate your surroundings and the gift of music. Imagine being deaf and blind the next day. - For the body that you have today, that you can still open and arms and give your love ones a big hug so cherish your health and take good care of your body.
- For the country you live in, because in another world they are hunger and war.
And many-many more wonderful things in life. Be glad that we have another day of breathing and experiencing at least we have another day of it, because some people didn’t got another chance.
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