A talk with a freind

Salya called me yesterday to ask me something on an Admin Officer's salary, but i was a little bz at that time so i told her to call me again a bit later.

Today i sms her for her to call me coz i was free in the morning. She told me that she is not too confrotable applying for a job in UNIKL as she's afriad if she would get bored with the admin work later.

So, as she was telling me her worries and me giving some opinions on work then i remember my class i had with Dr Fadzilah kamsah. He told me that i'm too "KERAS" in my attitude.. ( bukan keras benda lainlah... tapi benda lain memang keras pun ehehe. But he was telling me that my weakness is that im too rigid with my attitude and work that progress is hindering me. He asked me to tone down a little bit in order for me to be tolerable and accepted. When i came back home i analyse it , i do admit it that over the years i grown to be a little bit rocky. hehe.

So after my peep talk with salya , told him about what i discovered about myself and to let he analyse herself too ( dia ni pun keras jugak) but to prove how true i am , i ask her to ask her friends around her ( people that she work with) how keras she is, but she did admit yang dia ni memang keras and a perfectionist. Tulah kadang tu kita kena jugak lembut sikit and tolerate things and people around us.

So i hope that my advice inspire her to be lembut and tolerable, and that she wouldn't be too negative over things that have been happeing in the life.