Joke of the day.

A Malaysian dies and goes to hell.There he finds that there is a different Hell for each country.

He goes first to the German hell and asks: "What do they do here?" He is told "First they put you in an electric chair for an hour.Then theyLay you on a bed of nails for another hour. Then the German devil comes in and whips you for the rest of the day." The man does not like the sound of that at all, so he moves on. He checks Out the American, English, Singapore , French as well as Russian hell and many more.HeDiscovers that they are more or less the same as the German hell.

Then he comes to the Malaysian hell and finds that there is a very long line of people waiting to get in. Amazed he asks "What do they do here?" He is told "First they put you in an electric chair for an hour. Then they lay you on a bed of nails for another hour.Then the Malaysian devil comes in and whips you for the rest of the day.""But that is exactly the same as all the other hells - why are there soMany people waiting to get in? ""Because maintenance is so bad that the electric chair does not work, Someone has stolen all the nails from the bed, and the devil is a formerGovt servant, so he comes in, signs the register, then goes to theCanteen for the-tarik..."

OR he could be blogging hehehehehe. terasalah pulak aku kan.

TOXIC RELATIONSHIP

Do you remember the entry i did a few weeks ago " when friends go sour"
http://overatedallan.blogspot.com/2007/06/when-friends-go-sour.html, well this i found when i was browsing this morning from Oprah .com (ops balik balik oprah hari tok lariiiiiiiii... and i notice a few sililarities of what i define friends.

Are You Being Drained? Since friendships require an investment of time and energy, you'll want to choose the people you spend time with wisely. To determine whether a relationship drains you or fuels you, Cheryl Richardson, author of Take Time for Your Life, suggests asking yourself the following questions:

1) Am I able to be myself with this person? Do I feel accepted?

2) Are they critical or judgmental of me?

3) Does the relationship provide an even give-and-take exchange of energy?

4) Do I feel upbeat and energized when I'm around this person, or depleted and drained?

5) Does this person share my values? My level of integrity?

6) Is this person committed to our relationship?

7) Can this person celebrate my success?

8) Do I feel good about myself when I'm with this person?

Watch out for this freinds.... maybe its u and me...

Are you friends with people that constantly drain your energy, in both obvious and subtle ways? Several types of people will exhaust you or deter you from your path of extreme self-are. These types of friends to watch out for.

The Blamer

This is a person who consistently blames you and/or everyone else for her problems. The world and the people in it always seem to create havoc for this person, and instead of taking responsibility for her life, she'd rather blame others.

The Complainer

This person likes to hear her own voice. She constantly complains about what isn't working in her life and yet gets energy from complaining and dumping her frustrations on you.

The Drainer

This is the needy person who calls to ask for your guidance, support, information, advice, or whatever she needs to feel better in the moment. Because of her neediness, the conversation often revolves around her, and you can almost feel the life being sucked out of you during the conversation.

The Shamer

This person can be hazardous to your health. The shamer may cut you off, put you down, reprimand you, or make fun of your or your ideas in front of others. She often ignores your boundaries and may try to convince you that her criticism is for you own good. The shamer is the kind of person who make you question your own sanity before hers.

The Discounter

This is the person who discounts or challenges everything you say. Often, she has a strong need to be right and can find fault with any position. It can be exhausting to have a conversation with the discounter, so eventually you end up giving in and deciding to just listen.

The Gossiper

This person avoids intimacy by talking about others behind their backs. The gossip gets energy from relaying stories, opinions, and the latest "scoop." By gossiping about others, she creates a lack of safety in her relationships, whether she realizes it or not. After all, if she'll talk about someone else, she'll talk about you.

So which one are you... ops.

What should i do ~ giving advice

Guys i look tru this on Oprah.com and i would like to share this very interesting quiz and see how it would help you.

go to this website and just go tru the quiz.

Btw i got one wrong. heheeh.

http://www2.oprah.com/omagazine/200108/omag_200108_advicequiz.jhtml

I would hope , it would help us to help others.

Our ?????

It Is Interesting To Know How
Our World Is Changing.

Are We Developing?
It Makes You Wonder Because:

our commication - wireless

Our bussines - Cashless

Our telephone - Cordless

Our cooking - fireless

Our youth - Jobless

Our faith - Godless

Our labor - Effortless

Our conduct - Worthless

Our relation - Loveless

Our feelings - Heartless

Our attitude - Careless

Our politics - Shameless

Our education - Valueless

Our follies - Counless

Our Arguments - Baseless

Our commitment - Aimless

Our life - Meaningless

Our bosses - Hopeless

Our Salary - Very less !!!!!!!!!!!!!!