Da Big 41

3rd May...As what the Malays use to say.. HARI KERAMAT.

As you know... i will enter the 41 age very soon, approximately on the 3rd May as i was born on the year 1968. How aged can one person be. I remember when i was a kid, i always wanted to be older coz my idea of being older is Wiser and one can be taken seriously.

I was the youngest among us cousins back then and every time i open my mouth during a adult conversation everyone would give me a sinis smile and they end up leaving the room or just burst down with laughter, and that made me feel bad and so overconfident talking to people especially older guys. Throught the years i try to avoid being around older aged group as i cannot hold a conversation with them.

Zoommmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm............... after many years, i notice that when i open my mouth people would listen and what i said matters. Education and experiences totally changed my life upside down. Sometimes i notice alot of my cousins, relatives , friends and collegues had this probia talking in public or holding a conversation with older and more intelligent people but not me, but not me. I had reach a point where i just can make conversation as interesting as possible and as enlightening as i can, and by the end of the day i felt good.

So i guess being 41 is not all bad. We should celebrate and embrace our age and the wisdom that comes with it. So practically i'm looking forward for 41 and i hope it will bring much greater things and much higher heights.