When friends go sour....

WHEN FRIENDS GO SOUR... I guess things like this is something that we tried so-so much to avoid ,but it comes uninvited naturally . No matter how hard we make the freindship works it still happens to us maybe once or twice in a LIFETIME.

To me personally, i believe of friends are a person who complete us, because they are the ones you knows our inner secrets besides your families and to a point we even kept secrets to our family due to expectations.

To me freinds are;

a) A person who wouldn't judge us for who we are,

b) The person who would accept us for the bigger or smaller person we are.

c) The person who would enjoy our company even when you feel ,we are not the greatest

person to be with at the moment.

d) A person who would accept us for how much little or much money we have in our wallet.

e) A person who stand by us for all your torments and when we feel the world is coming

down on us.

f) A person who wouldn't compete but to complete us.

g) And for those married guys out there,,.... friends are the ones that would listen to your sex

encounters and sex problems , something that your family wouldn't understand.

h) A person who would guide you when we've gone astray.

But when you are so-so close to your friends , then comes expectations and fulfillments. Expectations in your relationship ... and fulfillments upon request that needed to be filled up. When we failed to do these then the freindship would slightly go bad and soon spead into bitter.

We expect our friends to put up 50/50 of what we put in, to put much efford as we did ,but most of all, to cherish the friendship as much as we did. Tapi kadang tu friends terlupa pandang kan. Friends took us for granted that we wouln't mind waiting for them for hours and hours in a restaurant because they have other things or we wouldn't mind cancelling our date to meet even we came all the way to meet them. Macam -macam tulah. I guess in a friendship, familyship or even in a love relationship , we have to make time...Make time to meet ,make time to talk , make time to even send a very simple sms or even a simple birthday card. Because only when we lose our friends and family then we realise how much we lost and misses them.