THINGS THAT DRAGS US DOWN

1. Having a bad job, gosh I know this and I’m sure so of us could relate to this.

Remember waking up in the morning asking ourselves do I want this for my future

and most of all hating and dragging ourselves to work.

2. Being and feeling fat and ugly. I don’t know but when I put on weight , I mean

overweight I always though how ugly I am in front of the mirror. How much my face

fills up the mirror space, how much I unappealing i am in those jeans and shirts. I

remember passing by a mirror in a shopping mall and commenting how hideous

was that man that just walks by without realizing that I was actually looking at

myself.

3. Having a bad boss. This is another relatable experience, having a bad boss that’s

boring, unapproachable, uninspiring and most of all a womanizer that only would

react if you have big boobs and downward opening.

4. Having financial problems. I been there, having to collect every single penny in

your pocket and thinking how lucky I am if I could strike lottery.

5. Feeling old and unwanted. I haven’t been there but when I mum retired from

work , she felt so old ,unworthy and unwanted. How extra sensitive she was with

every single comment comes from anybody’s mouth but now after a few years she

finally subside and the matter doesn’t really occur anymore.

6. Being betrayed. This is either by our own family members or very close friends

because it doesn’t hurt as much from the person we didn’t care.

7. Being alone and single. This is a mid crisis dilemma for all of you single people out

there. You just couldn’t find someone you really like. Sometimes with the high

expectation and the present married situation around us we opted to stay single but

then we are alone it tends to get lonely and that terrifies us.

8. Need to up some of yours here.