Yesterday Someone (D) called me up, sounds upset and at the verge of tears. Well oviously she was upset by things at home. After talking for a while for what had happen i soon realise the tears seems to boil at home.
Yelah, i guess its only human that sometimes we are unaware of our wrong doings and we cannot read peoples mind, and sometimes the other person might have his own issues that he cannot resolve , making it hard for him to face his current situation.
I do face the same stage at this time.. being unsure of what i want and what i felt makes it hard for me to express how i felt inside me. Sometimes being quiet doesn't mean that we are mad, its just meant that i would like to be left alone. Let me digest my feelings alone and soon i will be okay. No Drama please.
So when she called me up yesterday, it triggers me, how i need to be alone myself. How i myself do not understand my feelings and more to express my thoughts. So the only advise i gave her was to give it a rest. let him be for a while and he'll come back to his senses soon. I know its hard to don't understand people .. especially when you are a person that expresses yourself openly, but remember not everybodys the same. Some people need time to digest and some people just need time to rest.
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